In general, there is never a bad time to masturbate. As long as you have privacy, and the urge, having a personal sexual release is healthy. Men and women, young and old, take matters into their own hands, but sometimes it can get a bit mundane. Even though you finish with an orgasm, the self-satisfying journey becomes routine and predictable if you let it.
Do you men want to make it fresh and exciting again? Variety is the key and will even enhance the whole experience. Here are some new male masturbation ideas you can try on for size.
Male Masturbation Idea #1: Use Good Lube
Sometimes when the urge hits, you get right at it and start stroking without lubrication. Depending on the length of time it takes to achieve orgasm, you can get, well, rope burn. This is from dry rubbing, and it causes an abrasion that can be painful.
The solution is to use a lubricating product with every session. There are plenty of hands and dedicated sex creams you can use, but to give you full benefits, try organic coconut oil. Besides being the perfect lube for masturbating, it will help heal any chaffing, reduce inflammation in the body, and speed up wound healing.
It is also anti-bacterial and anti-fungal while giving your body healthy fat to absorb, so use coconut oil whenever you masturbate for a beneficial, all-around lube.
Male Masturbation Idea #2: Sex Toys
Adult sex toys are a fun way to experience play. While you may think that toys are for kids, many toys are designed for adults who want to be sexual. Even more exciting is a line of solo toys to aid in male masturbation.
Here are a few of the best ones for masturbating:
Penis Strokers
These allow you to insert your penis inside, and they have different options, including vibrating, sucking and stroking. Some resemble a mouth, vagina, and anus to help make the visual experience more real.
Body Parts
You can purchase realistic-looking and feeling sexual body parts for self-satisfaction. There are synthetic torsos oriented for insertion on top or from behind and full-body dolls with multiple entry points for pleasure.
Masturbating Enhancements
These are extras that aid in your masturbating by adding pressure and pleasure. These include cock rings and anal toys.
Male Masturbation Idea #3: Build a Fantasy
Most men will be urged to masturbate by seeing something sexually enticing or thinking about it. Then they must keep up the stimuli to complete the task. In this digital era, porn is right at our fingertips, and no matter what gets your rocks off, it is in abundance for viewing. The problem is it isn’t reality. Porn is designed to give men what they think they want, and while it can be enjoyable, it is much better to build your fantasy in your mind.
This is where you can dictate the scenario and have it play out to your exact sexual preferences. And the best part is you can have the starring role. Using your imagination to create a sexual fantasy is perfect for masturbating because it takes no internet connection. Just close your eyes, grab on and let your thoughts guide you.
Male Masturbation Idea #4: Lengthen the Event
Men and women all know it is easy for a man to reach orgasm. Some guys aren’t as sensitive as others and can go longer, but ultimately, the job can get done in record time, way before a woman can. Masturbating is usually a solo event, so there is no one timing you, but if you want to have a new experience, you can lengthen the session so the pleasure lasts longer.
There are different ways to do this, including:
- Stimulating other sensitive body parts instead of going straight for the penis.
- Practice edging, bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm, back off until it subsides, and then do it again.
- Use your non-dominate hand for a somewhat awkward but novel way to slowly get there.
- Try different body positions to see what feels good, like different sexual positions.
These will make your solo session more enjoyable and lengthen the experience.
Male Masturbation Idea #5: Explore Your Own Body
Masturbation is more than hand-to-member; you should engage your whole body to add to the experience. Your body is full of nerve endings that culminate in different areas and when under sexual arousal, come to life. Before you start with hands-on stimulation to your penis, run your fingers across your body to find what feels good. When you hit the right spot, stimulate it as you masturbate for a more intense orgasm.
Masturbating is one of those rare, self-serving pleasures that is personal and profound. You should enjoy the experience and look forward to each time as you take on these new male masturbating ideas. Good luck, and have a blast!